We get it—talking to our little ones (or even our teens) about topics like slavery and racism can feel heavy. But these conversations are necessary. They help our children grow into empathetic, compassionate people who can be part of meaningful change.
Here are some mom-to-mom tips to help you get started:
Keep it age-appropriate
What your preschooler can understand will look very different from what your middle schooler is ready for. For younger kids, simple picture books and stories about the traditions of Juneteenth are a great place to start. Older kids can dive into deeper conversations about history, racism, and social justice.
Start with open-ended questions
Sometimes the best way to begin is just by asking. Try:
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“Have you heard of Juneteenth?”
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“How do you think people felt when they learned they were finally free?”
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“How do you think slavery still impacts people’s lives today?”
When we give our kids room to ask their own questions, we create space for real, meaningful learning.
Be honest, even when it’s hard
It’s okay if you don’t have all the answers. It’s okay if these conversations feel a little uncomfortable. Our kids can handle hard truths when we meet them with love, honesty, and patience.
Focus on resilience and joy
Yes, the history is painful—but it’s also filled with incredible strength, hope, and joy. Black Americans have not only survived, they’ve built rich, beautiful cultures and communities full of love and pride. Celebrate that with your kids.
Connect the past to today
The fight for racial equality isn’t over. Talk with your kids about how we can be allies, friends, and helpers in the work toward justice and equity today.
